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Baby Products We’re Loving (An Update)

A while back, I wrote a post about some of our favorite baby products. We’re still using most of the stuff I wrote about then, but with our growing (and more active/mobile) babe, we’ve added a few things to our favorites list. I wouldn’t say these things are our must-haves, but they’re definitely some good-to-haves that we didn’t necessarily know about pre-baby. And if they make our little one happier and our lives easier, we’re fans.

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  1. Chewbeads – I have three of these necklaces, and Weston and his little gums love them dearly. It’s nice because unlike with a typical teething toy, I don’t have to worry about him dropping this on the floor seventy billion times for me to pick up and wipe off seventy billion times. And if we’re out at a place where he doesn’t feel completely at ease, the necklace is almost like a comfort item, since it’s right there to grab and play with if I’m holding him. (Anything that keeps him from yanking and chewing on my hair). :)
  2. Relax Melodies iPhone app – We discovered this little gem while staying overnight at the beach. After realizing we left Weston’s noise machine at home, we had a minor freakout. Weston is a really good sleeper at home, with the noise machine on for naps and nighttime sleep (at a really low volume at night when there aren’t other sounds around the house to block out), and we like to stick with what works. Especially because an inconsolable, unable-to-sleep baby in a hotel room would be a less than pleasant scenario. He does take naps without it in his carseat or stroller when we’re out and about, and he doesn’t have it when he stays with my parents, so it might not even be that necessary. But using this app put us at ease knowing he was more likely to have peaceful sleep. We used the “river” setting, and he slept great. It was nice to not have to tiptoe around the room once he went to sleep. This app is definitely handy for traveling, since then the noise machine is one less thing to pack.
  3. CeraVe moisturizing cream – Weston has sensitive skin, and although we occasionally have to use prescription-strength stuff on certain places (like eczema patches he gets on his cheeks), this cream works wonders for the rest of his little body. It’s nice and thick and fragrance-free, so it doesn’t cause any irritation. We’ve used tons of different lotions and creams, but a dermatologist recommended this brand, and it’s our current fave for protecting and moisturizing his eczema-prone skin. (We also use Aquaphor on his face, which is great, too; we just prefer the CeraVe for the rest of him since it’s less serum-y and more lotion-y).
  4. Outdoor blanket – Since the weather has been nice and Springy lately (well, except for this week…what the heck), we’ve been venturing outside to get some good ol’ vitamin D during the day a lot more often. We love tossing this blanket down in the backyard. It’s big enough for spreading out lots of toys and books, and the material makes it really easy to wipe off. It also folds and zips up neatly into a rectangle with a nifty handle…although it takes approximately 75 tries to get it folded right…but eventually you get the hang of it.
  5. IKEA Antilop highchair – Obviously a highchair is handy to have around with a little one in the house, but I am absolutely in love with this one. We received a Graco one that we registered for pre-baby, but after seeing this IKEA highchair, I knew it would take up less space, be easier to clean, and require much less time and frustration to put together (you’re welcome for that last part, husband). And it’s only 25 bucks. Win.

It’s fun to see how our favorite products evolve over time as our little guy grows. We’re learning that this parenting thing is all about taking in suggestions from others, coming up with some ideas of your own, and combining all of that knowledge to discover what works best for your kid. So this list is just what’s been working for us lately with our sweet 8-month old. :)

What baby products are you loving? Anything in particular for these warmer weather months we’re getting into?

 

 

Being Intentional & Simplifying in 2014

This post is part of the Blue Bike Blog Tour. Tsh Oxenreider (from The Art of Simple) has a new book out, Notes From a Blue Bike. As part of her book launch, she’s invited readers to share posts about their own journeys toward living slower, simpler, and with more intention.

My “theme word” for 2014 is intentional. I love making goals and resolutions, and I can go a little overboard with way too many goals at a time, so it helps to narrow my focus to one or two key words. I chose “intentional” for this year because it’s so easy to go through my days and feel like I’m just letting life happen instead of consciously making choices that match my values or actively choosing the way I want my life to be. Since Tsh’s new book is all about living more intentionally, I can’t wait to get my hands on a copy and get some fresh inspiration.

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I thought I’d share a few areas of my life in which I’m striving to be more intentional this year…

  • Time – There are a lot of changes I want to make with how purposefully I spend my time, from little things like not wasting all of my spare minutes scrolling through various social media, to bigger things like how we spend our evening hours together as a family. With my husband’s new job, we have less time at home together (he was working from home a lot before), so we’re trying to make better choices with how we spend our time together at night. We both feed Weston dinner and give him his bath, so it’s nice to have those family rituals each evening. But we’re also working on healthier boundaries with technology — not being glued to our various devices but making the time for more conversation and more meaningful time together. For example, if we feel like watching TV, we try to choose a show we both really like and enjoy it together without other distractions instead of just leaving the TV on as background noise while we do other stuff. I also want to use the time I spend feeding my son more intentionally — I nurse Weston six times a day, so that’s a huge chunk of time that I could be using more wisely – by just slowing down and resting, or reading something I actually want to read, instead of playing around on my phone or checking email repeatedly while I’m feeding him.
  • Friendships — I want to be more intentional with putting in the effort and time to build new relationships as well as being consistent in connecting with the friends I already have. Things like regular phone dates with out-of-town friends and showing up to play dates where I can meet and get to know neighbors and other mom friends (Weston and I recently joined two play groups — one in our neighborhood and one for moms in the northeast Columbia area — which we’re really excited about :)) So often friendships get put on the back-burner when we think we’re too busy to really invest time in other people, but I want to prioritize relationships more this year.
  • Our Home — I didn’t realize how cluttered our little house had gotten until all the baby items came along and we realized we have nowhere to store it all! It’s pretty embarrassing how cluttered some areas of our home are, and a shame that we can’t even use some rooms/closets because they’re just overflowing with STUFF that we don’t even use. Areas like our office, office closet, bedroom closet, and pantry need a major overhaul. My goal is to simplify, take A LOT of stuff to Goodwill, and have room for the things in our house we actually use and love.
  • Filling my cup — Motherhood is the most rewarding and joyful experience, but it requires a constant giving of yourself and your time and your energy, and that’s not always easy. I’m learning to be less selfish with my own plans and wants, but I’ve found that I need to carve out at least some time each day to do things I love, like reading a little bit before bed each night, even if it’s only a page. Or setting aside just a few minutes here and there to be creative, like working on a digital photo book project or blogging after Weston goes to sleep at night. When I don’t make time for “filling my cup” with some of these things that reenergize me, I feel drained and not myself. And when I’m not making regular time for things just for me, I’m much more prone to getting impatient and frustrated throughout the day.

Do you have a theme word for 2014? How are you hoping to live differently this year? I’d love to hear. :)

 

IKEA Organizing Faves

IKEA trips are pretty much my favorite thing. I am like a drooling kid in a candy store when I go to this place. Like, I literally drool. Or maybe that’s just Weston’s drool all over me. The first time I went, my mom and I both could barely contain ourselves (“everything’s so cheap! and so cute!”). We spent 7 hours shopping that day. Of course, my hubs wasn’t quite as excited when I got home with a car FULL of cheap & cute stuff, most of which required hours of his manual labor to put together (sorry, babe)!

My mom is usually my IKEA shopping buddy, and we went last week. But this time, we had a new little shopper with us:

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Actually I guess Weston’s first IKEA trip was last Spring, when he looked like this:

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Anyways, he was quite the trooper. He loves being out and about in stores (Target is another one of his faves…boy after my own heart :))

I went with a few items in mind to look for, based on areas in our home that desperately need some organizing attention (pantry & master closet in particular…major disaster zones).

Here are some of the things I bought that I can’t wait to use…

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I snagged two of these boxes ($5.99 each) to store some of Weston’s toys in our office/room where we stash random junk (please tell me I’m not the only one who has a random junk room?!) We keep some of his larger toys in here, so it made sense to put at least some smaller toys too so he has other options when playing in here. These boxes are big enough to hold plenty of toys, and I like the soft fabric texture, too. We’re trying our best to keep things fairly simple and not let baby toys completely take over our home, so right now it’s working for us to have one box of toys in his nursery, one in the living room, and one in the office, in addition to a few bigger toys (like activity mats and a sit-in car) that sort of float around various rooms.

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I grabbed a couple more of these clothes storage boxes ($19.99 for a 2-pack) to put in our master closet. These pretties match our bedroom, and I love using them for out-of-season clothes or for smaller items like scarves, gloves, and hats.

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Remember that pantry organization project I mentioned here? Well, it has yet to be completed (or even begun, actually), but now I have some of these containers to make the pantry a little more streamlined. I’m thinking of using them for cereal, chips, crackers, etc., and I also got some smaller ones to use for granola, almonds, and other smaller-sized food.

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I use these boxes for office storage near my desk — they house things like extra notepads, stationery, and gift-wrapping supplies. I needed a few more for some craft supplies, and I love how they tidy up my office space.

kastanjenot-bowl__0174458_PE328385_S4I kind of broke an organizing rule with this purchase and bought this basket without an actual use for it in mind. But isn’t it just lovely? I’m sure I’ll find a home for it in the living room or florida room, since we have the whole basket/wooden texture thing going on in those two rooms especially.  It’s a pretty good size for $9.99, and I’m thinking it might be a home for remote controls, or magazines, or maybe even napkins in the kitchen. Hmmm…

samla-insert-for-box--and--gallon__79989_PE204091_S4This storage box is actually meant to be used as an insert for another box, but I bought a few to store cleaning supplies underneath our bathroom cabinets and in a hall closet. I love that the handle makes it easy to grab and go when I’m rushing around getting my clean on.

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Ok, so this last item doesn’t really have anything to do with organizing, but look at this cute deer! I was downright giddy to find so much lime green at IKEA this time around, since Weston’s nursery has some of this shade. I couldn’t resist grabbing this guy to add a splash of green on top of his navy blue bookcase. (Hoping to do a nursery tour post soon)!

So that’s my round-up of favorite IKEA organizing tools. Now I need to put this stuff to use and get some serious organizing going on ’round here.

Happy Monday! (Er, Tuesday…my night owl baby just went down for the night, so it still feels like Monday to me :))

Making Peace with my To-do List

So I was planning to write a post this week about organizing our embarrassingly messy pantry, a post complete with pretty, shiny “after” pictures, but the thing is that I have to actually organize it before I can write a post about organizing it. And life has been pretty messy around here lately (not a whole lotta organizing going on). Just so you get the visual, here’s what our house looks like currently:

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Like I said — messy.

We had a water pipe bust last week, and our bedroom floor and wall are still in the drying process, so everything has yet to be put back together. We’re currently sleeping on the pull-out couch (wishing we had a guest bed right about now, because sleeping on this thing makes us wake up feeling at least ninety years old).

Anyways, with all of this craziness going on, it’s been one of those weeks where not much on my to-do list really gets crossed off. And that’s something that generally stresses me out.

Case in point: Weston went through a stage a few months ago where he literally would. not. nap. during the day unless I was holding him, and I just about lost my mind because I felt so suffocated and angry about not being able to GET ANYTHING DONE. But then I realized that I was really just mad about the fact that I was not the one in control of how my day was going. And that people (like my infant son) are more important than my to-do list. And that baby snuggles are way more fun than vacuuming, anyway. I know all of this sounds obvious (maybe this is easier for most people), but I was really having a hard time with getting to the end of the day and feeling unproductive.

So one of my goals for this year is to not be so driven by productivity and to remember that loving the people under my roof well is more important than how much I get done in a given day.

Having said all that…the house still has to get cleaned by someone, and being a responsible adult means getting some of that to-do list crossed off at some point.

So, here are some strategies that are helping me keep my sanity and make peace with my to-do list, especially during days, weeks, or seasons when life is unusually hectic.

  1. 3 “Most Important Tasks” – I’m reading Organized Simplicity by Tsh Oxenreider, a book that defines simple living and offers suggestions for how to get there. One thing she writes about is having 3 tasks each day that you label as “most important.” That way, you’re not pressured and overwhelmed by your entire to-do list; if you get to more items on your list, great, but if not, at least you know you made progress.
  2. Chip away at large tasks – Some things on my to-do list loom so large in my head that they feel almost too intimidating to even start, like that newborn photo book I still haven’t made, or organizing our closets. But a few minutes here and there really do add up, so even if your only time to work on something is during your child’s nap time, or whenever you have a few extra minutes, tackling large projects in small bites adds up quicker than you’d think.
  3. Evening tidy-up — Some things I wait to do until right before bed, like picking up Weston’s toys or putting the day’s dirty dishes in the dishwasher. (Check out that alliteration!) Otherwise, these are tasks I’d be doing over and over again throughout the day. Every night, I do a quick tidy-up (15-20 minutes) around the house to get things back in order. This way, even if I didn’t get the chance to get much more done throughout the day, I can go to bed feeling like I’m not surrounded by clutter.

Maybe next week I’ll get around to organizing that pantry and sharing about it here. Or maybe more important life things will come up and it won’t get done quite yet. Either way, I think the world will keep on spinnin’. :)

What are some tips you have for managing your to-do list/not stressing about getting everything done? I’d love to hear, because obviously I’m still figuring all of this out.

Our Favorite Baby Products

When I was pregnant with Weston, Will and I were clueless when it came to creating a baby registry. Who knew there were so many baby-related products? And were they all really necessary?  Walking into Babies ‘R Us and seeing everything in all its pink and blue pastel glory is pretty intimidating. Thankfully, my incredibly kind sis-in-law (who had a baby just months before) helped us wade through those murky waters by helping out with our registry.

If a little one is in your future and you happen to be as confused as we were by all the products out there, here’s a list of our top five must-have items, in addition to the obvious things like diapers, bottles, pacifiers, etc.. Of course, every parent (and baby) is different, and this list is by no means exhaustive, but we use each of these products daily and love having them for our five and half month old.

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1. Aden + Anais blankets – These large, muslin blankets are super soft and breathable, so they’re great for swaddling. They’re also handy to use as nursing covers if you’re around other people and don’t feel like giving them an eye-full. We use one of these every day to swaddle Weston for his naps. (He is a swaddle ninja and usually wiggles himself out of blankets, so we don’t use these at night when he’s asleep for a longer period).

2. Just Born Wear-A-Blanket – Aside from its awesome name, this product is probably our favorite baby item because it drastically improved the quality of Weston’s nighttime sleep (and therefore our nighttime sleep). For weeks, bedtime was so frustrating because we couldn’t settle on a swaddle/blanket option that seemed to suit him. He used to squirm angrily when his arms were swaddled down, but if his arms were free, they would flail and wake him up. We tried those velcro swaddle things, blankets, sleep sacks, you name it. Nothing seemed to work – either Weston wasn’t happy or I was worried about a blanket coming loose since he wiggled around so much.

Enter: the Wear-A-Blanket. This thing is the bomb. Weston slept so much better once we started putting him in one. (He also outgrew his startle reflex around the time we stumbled across these, so the whole arms-being-free thing wasn’t as much of a problem by then). It has a velcro strap underneath that makes baby feel more secure, and small mesh areas to add breathability. I’m sure all babies are not as picky as ours when it comes to nighttime sleep preferences, and this specific product might not work for you, but sometimes it just takes a ton of trial and error (and patience) to figure out what works for you and your baby.

3. Sophie the Giraffe – This teething toy is soft for baby’s gums, and the legs are easy for little fingers to grasp. It’s also made of natural rubber, which is cool if that sort of thing is your jam. Sophie is by far Weston’s favorite toy – she makes her little photobombing appearance in just about all of the pics I take of him.

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4.Changing Pad Liners – This one is a little boring, but we use the heck out of these Babies ‘R Us pads that come in a variety of sizes. We use medium sized ones on top of Weston’s changing pad and small square-shaped ones under his head to catch spit up when he’s playing on a blanket/activity mat. These pads are also good for impromptu diaper changes if we’re not near his changing table, and the large ones protect his crib sheet from diaper leaks. These things are so helpful!

5. Baby Bouncer – A bouncer may seem like an obvious essential baby item, but I wish we had gone with this one from the start. (We also have a Graco combination swing/bouncer, but this one is a little smaller and easier to move from room to room when needed). Weston plays in this bouncer every day right now, and the bar allows us to latch different dangling toys to add variety for him. He likes to hang out in it so he can play with his toys and watch us while we’re doing stuff around the house like getting ready in the mornings or cooking dinner.

Those are our favorite products – I’m sure I could keep going, but this post is getting long enough. The only other things I’d say we consider essential are lots of burp cloths, an activity mat for playtime on the floor, and a baby monitor (this is the one we have). I’m sure I’m leaving something out, but that’s all I’ve got for now. And for those mamas planning to breastfeed, nursing camis from Target are the best thing since the Baconator.

What are your baby item essentials? Leave a comment and share!

 

2013 Recap & Happy New Year

I’m a few days late, but Happy New Year!

2013 was a big one for us. Some highlights:

1. The best part of 2013 for us was adding our sweet baby boy to our fam. Weston has brought so much joy into our lives. Motherhood is by far the toughest thing I’ve ever done, but we’ve been having so much fun these past five and a half months. Even on the most frustrating days (like when he decides to boycott naps all day, like yesterday), all he has to do is look at me with that big gummy grin of his and it’s all worth it. We’re so blessed to have such a sweet little guy.

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2. This one is connected to #1, so maybe it should be called #1.5 instead of #2, but being pregnant for over half of 2013 was also a highlight. I loved being pregnant. Yes it was uncomfortable at times, and the second half of my pregnancy was in a way a very scary time because of a potential umbilical cord problem we faced (more about that later), but I would do it again in a heartbeat. (Ok maybe not in a heartbeat — more like in a couple of years, when I forget that whole newborn-never-sleeping-at-night part). Anyways, I loved feeling Weston’s kicks and having a big ol’ pregnant belly and not having to count calories. And having cleavage for the first time, that was a plus. K, moving right along.

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 3. Quitting my job. That was a biggie. I miss the feeling of productivity I had with teaching, and I miss the people I worked with, but this was the right decision for me for now. Even though I most likely won’t go back to middle school (God bless the brave souls of middle school teachers!), I’m sure I’ll return to teaching at some point. I’m loving being at home with the munchkin, so leaving teaching definitely goes in the “plus” column for 2013.

4. Joining community groups through our church. We’ve been attending our church for a while and love it — everything from the pastor to the music to the fact that we can wear jeans and get free coffee. But we hadn’t joined a small group, so we didn’t feel very connected. I am generally not the type of person to just show up to something where I will know absolutely nobody and actually participate (in terms of scary things, that ranks right up there for me with spider attacks and giving speeches), but I knew it was time to make the leap and get connected. I wanted to actually know other people when we showed up for church on Sundays instead of just smiling and saying hello to people whose names we didn’t even know.

So, I signed up for one, and one rainy day this past summer, I put on my brave girl pants and showed up. And I’m so glad I did. Those last months of my pregnancy were the scariest in terms of the cord knot we knew was threatening Weston’s life (but praise God it didn’t cause any problems!), and the book I read with this group of women was just what I needed during that season. I was in a different group this Fall, and it was wonderful, too. And (!) we actually know people at our church now, so yay. Branching out of my comfort zone and signing up for these groups was a definite highlight of the year.

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I’m thankful for the ways we were challenged and grew this past year, in our faith and in our marriage and in becoming parents. It’s been a crazy good year. Here’s to a 2014 that undoubtedly has many more exciting things in store.

Happy New Year!

photo-3P.S. I think this just might be my favorite pic of the year: my men in their Gamecock gear.